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Remember Love Has Free Will!

Remember Love Has Free Will!
by Cherokee Billie

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner I thought I would share with you a teaching about love. Love cannot be confined or put into one category.

“Think not that you can direct the course of Love, for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course” – Khalil Gibran

As a spiritual advisor in any given day I have clients call and ask, “I love this man or woman so much and I’ve never felt this way about anybody before. We have such incredible chemistry together. I don’t understand why they don’t love me like I love them. What am I doing wrong?”

The person is not doing anything wrong, it is just simply that free will is involved and if the other person does not have the same feelings, there is nothing anyone can do to make them love the other person. There is no magic spell that can cause someone to love you. If you think about it would you really want someone to love you because of a magical spell? No, you would want them to love you for you.

The more needy you feel about having someone love you, the less likely they are going to love you, because your need pushes them away. Playing the victim does not attract love.

As difficult as it may be it is important to stay detached emotionally in order to have a clear mind and to show the strong side of yourself. Have you ever had a nagging child pestering you for something over and over until you finally give in and give it to them because you cannot stand to hear them another moment? That is what often happens in relationships. The other person may not be in love, but they will say or do anything just to satisfy the other person and stop the pestering. Many times this will backfire as the needy person never gets enough.

If you have fallen in love with someone it is your free will at work allowing you to choose love. Have you ever been pursued by someone that you knew you could not love? Did the person keep calling you, texting you, or sending e-mails frequently? It started to get annoying after a while. You had the free will not to love that person. It is important to remember that free will is one of the main players in romantic love.

The Creator has given us the gift of free will and we are not puppets that can be controlled. Free will can make life difficult sometimes because we do want to control others and we have to face the fact that the Divine Creator gave each one of us free will.
You have to be found worthy of love. By this I mean you have to have self love, confidence, compassion, and kindness. These are the attributes that attract love. Fill your heart and soul with these attributes and you will find love coming to you of its own free will.

Remembering Princess Diana July 01, 1961 to August 31, 1997

Princess Diana will long be remembered for her kindness, gentleness, beauty, and humanitarianism. Today on her birthday let’s celebrate her life and what she gave to so many. I know that she would be very proud of her two sons.

Here is an amazing and inspiring quote from a beautiful woman and an inspiration to so many…..
”Carry out random acts of kindness with no expectation of reward; safe in the knowledge that one day, someone might do the same for you.” – Princess Diana

This is so true. Whenever you do kindnesses expect nothing in return and that is how the blessings come in to your life.

In 2007, marking the tenth anniversary of her death, her sons, Princes William and Harry, honored their beloved mother with a special concert to be held on what would have been her 46th birthday. The proceeds of the event went to charities supported by Diana and her sons.

Continuing her charitable efforts is the Diana, Princess of Wales Memorial Fund. Established after her death, the fund provides grants to numerous organizations and supports initiatives to provide care to the sick in Africa, help refugees, and stop the use of land mines.

So here are a few facts. Diana shook up the British monarchy and speeded its modernization. She helped to tear down prejudices about AIDS. She raised awareness of eating disorders. She promoted opposition to land mines. These are pretty hefty achievements for a woman of little education who mocked herself for being “thick as a plank.” Add to these a more dubious accomplishment — her skillful manipulation of media images — and it’s clear why, so many years after her death, Diana remains an inescapable presence in British life: mostly, but not always, benign; a restless and seductive ghost. It’s time to peer into the many corners she still haunts.

In her charitable work, Diana set a standard that’s hard to equal. She ignored the prevailing prejudices and fears about AIDS to clasp the hands of sufferers, and embraced leprosy patients in Indonesia. Arbiter remembers a visit to a home for the blind where Diana noticed that an old resident was crying: “She asked what was the matter and he said, ‘I can’t see you.’ So she took his hand and put it on her face.”

Her beautiful spirit will always live on. She will always be the Queen of Hearts!

The Dolphin and the Cat

Here is a very special video that shows the love between two different species and their ability to communicate to one another. The dolphin and the cat show what a good time is!

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if people of different cultures, races, and religions could find a way to communicate and show kindness to one another? This was sent to me by Anabella who always sends me something beautiful or interesting. Enjoy it!

Thank You for All Your Wonderful Comments and Videos

I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate all of your messages and videos that you share here on my blog. The love you show each other is so wonderful. Each one of you is very special and trust me the Divine Spirit sees all of your love and you will be blessed.

“I expect to pass through this world but once; any good thing therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now; let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.” Steven Grellet

“Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the and the blind can see” Mark Twain

I want you to know that I will not be able to respond to any of your comments for the next week. I’m undergoing medical procedures and will be away from my computer most of the time. So if one of your posts needs approval be patient and I will get back and approve it as soon as possible. Please keep me in your prayers as I certainly need them.

With love,
Cherokee Billie

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